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      • Psalm 55: Betrayed by your best friend
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      • Psalm 58: The Snake Psalm
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      • Psalm 62: Wait in Silence
      • Psalm 63: Hide and Seek
      • Psalm 64: It's not OK!
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      • Psalm 67: All you peoples praise!
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      • Psalm 84: How lovely is your house
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      • Psalm 112: Welcome to the good life!
      • Psalm 113: From the rising of the sun
      • Psalm 114: Skipping mountains
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      • Psalm 116: Death could not hold me down
      • Psalm 117: The Shortest Psalm
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      • Psalm 121: The Bodyguard
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      • Psalm 128: Live long and prosper
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      • Psalm 135: Come on, people, praise!
      • Psalm 136: Endless love
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      • Psalm 145: We will tell your praise
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      • Psalm 149: The Double Edged Sword
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Resources for faith and life


​Welcome to 'Conversations' ...
Inspiration 
from Aotearoa New Zealand

Brought to you by
Silvia Purdie



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Conversations Counselling and Supervision
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Place Sustainability Consultancy and training
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Climate and mental health: a Spinoff article
I was interviewed by The Spinoff reporter Shanti Mathias on the day of the Strike for Climate, and contributed to this report:
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TAFEGA
Auckland Floods Poementary
​by Rev. Mua Strickson-Pua
This astonishing work of poetry and commentary ('Poementary') by my fabulous friend Mua is amazing - everyone should read it!
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Prayer of Confession, based on Romans 8:18-24
 
The sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing 
with the glory to be revealed to us.
God of grace, we confess to you the suffering of your world
and the ways we protect ourselves from that suffering.
May we, and all your creation
find the freedom of your glory.
 
For the creation waits with eager longing 
for the revealing of the children of God; 
God of grace, we confess to you our longing for life
and the many ways we fail to be your children.
May we, and all your creation
find the freedom of your glory.
 
Creation was bound to futility, in the hope that it will 
be set free from bondage to decay. 
God of grace, we confess our role in the decay of the natural world - 
We see all too clearly the destruction, pollution and disasters.
May we, and all your creation
find the freedom of your glory.
 
The whole creation has been groaning in labour pains;  
not only creation, but we ourselves, 
who have the first fruits of the Spirit, 
we groan inwardly while we wait for adoption, 
the redemption of our bodies.
For in hope we were saved. 
God of grace, renew our lives to your glory.
We know ourselves forgiven in you.
Inspire us and empower us to be your children,
fully alive within your creation.
Ame

A Morning Karakia

Āta mārie, e te Ariki
I greet you this new day
I te pōuri, ki te ao mārama
Tihei mauri ora!
Your light shines in the darkness
Your dawn rises, fresh every morning
I entrust you with this day
and I trust you with tomorrow
I know you with every fibre of my being
I give to you every trouble
and all the people I love
Aroha mai, aroha atu
Homai ki a mātou
te taro, te kaha, te manawanui
mo tēnei rā
as all glory returns to you
loving Lord
Amen
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Professional supervision is a significant investment of time and money. But is it working for you? The new year is an excellent time to reflect on what you need this year, and to review your supervision. ​
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A series of short videos about professional supervision:
Youtube: 'Conversations that make a difference'


BOOKS!!
Awhi Mai Awhi Atu: Women in Creation Care  ... Read all about it HERE
And get your e-book HERE
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Newly published!~
​'Moving On: Grief in Ministry Transition'
Over the last couple of years I have been working away at a 'passion project' reflecting on the challenges of ending ministries. This has become a book, as I have been hugely honoured that many fabulous people, from a diversity of cultures, have shared with me their own experience of ministry transitions, both personally and helping others through endings.
Read more HERE
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Video:
half hour talk on climate change and theology

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A new page on anxiety from a Christian perspective. Understand your own and other people's stress reactions ... and tools for non-anxious living.

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What is it actually like doing direct protest action on climate change? Read a therapist's reflections in my Climate Action page.
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Wellbeing and Climate Change
Recording and notes from a recent A Rocha event in Christchurch.
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"Relationship Repair Kit" 
offering eight practical and profoundly important tools for strengthening your marriage.
- in the Counselling section.
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Life, the Universe, and God
Six Big Ideas about Creation
DOWNLOAD HERE             
A six-part study on God’s Creation in Christian Theology:
• an overview of leading writers in eco-theology 
• a range of perspectives
• questions and suggestions for discussion and prayer
• issues raised by the Covid-19 pandemic.

Resources for faith and worship:

GOD ... resources for worship, especially 'Calls to worship' and confession
- prayers and home-grown 'psalms'
- sermons
- Communion liturgies
- all-age worship ideas & reflections for children's ministry

PSALMS ... reflections on Biblical Psalms
interpreted and reworked for prayer and for use in worship

LOVE ... poetry, discussions on marriage & intimacy
and dramatic explorations of Biblical love stories
... reflections on grief and death

​SONG ... original music, for worship and for kids
... and lots of lovely photos!

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​Because I believe ...

that the gospel of Jesus Christ is true!
that growing to maturity in Christ takes work
that courageous honesty of heart and soul is required
that worship is wonderful
that each person is a taonga, a treasure, 

no matter the age, assets or abilities
that the local church is the hope of the world.

In conversation ...

... chatting with friends over coffee

... skilled professional support 

... finding words for the moments and movements 

of mind & body, 
my spirit alive with God-Spirit

... getting to know Jesus Christ, 

ever curious as to what he would say and do

... bringing every fibre and phrase into the eternal conversation of Father Spirit Son


... with my people in my place and offered to everyplace

... with pain and with celebration, 

with beauty and with scars, 
with the sacred and the ordinary, 

with scripture, song and silence.


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Photo and painting by Jessica Ramage
www.conversations.net.nz
Written by Silvia Purdie 

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