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Advent and Christmas

Also: Advent-theme sermons in the 'End Times' section
Christmas messages in the 'Christmas' section under 'Word'
Christmas Poems: a collection of some extra special poetry and song lyrics

Advent Candle lighting: Joy
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Come, light of the world,
come live in our hearts,
come move in-between us,
come shine in the darkness.
This candle shines for joy,
for joy is needed now in our world.
Joy is a hunger and hope is a gift,
a gift of the Christ child, born in the night
Come, light of the world
be our joy, we pray. 
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Download three entire sets of Advent Candle lighting prayers HERE
​A Christmas Psalm: based on Psalm 96
 
Sing a new song to the Lord
All the earth, sing!
All you people, sing!
See God’s glory, it is coming!
Tell of God’s salvation, it is coming into the world!
Speak of greatness, strength to overcome.
Come out to meet the Lord, proclaiming his name.
Come into his holy place and tremble.
All the earth, tremble in wonder.
All the galaxies, rejoice in praise!
All the oceans and all that lives in the sea – sing for joy!
All the fields and forests and all that lives on the land – shout for joy!
For the Lord is coming -
he is coming to make everything new,
he is coming to put things right.
Rejoice for the Lord is coming …
 
But will we see him, born in a manger?
Will we proclaim him, son of Mary?
Will we welcome him, this stranger in a strange land?
Will we honour him, this unexpected judge of the world?
 
Lord God, we see you, born in a manger.
Lord Jesus, we proclaim you, son of God and son of man.
Loving God, we welcome you; come make your home among us.
Lord Jesus, we honour you and praise you and choose again to follow.
Sing a new song to the Lord! Amen.
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​Advent Blessing
Be alert, be awake, be ready, for the Lord is coming!
Be watchful, take note; open your eyes for the Lord is here!
Listen carefully for his voice in the crowd and in the stillness.
Be on the lookout for his hand at work, for God is at work.
Look and you will see his love in action.
Be ready to notice God’s grace making space for hope,
and his peace shimmering on the water.
"Small and Simple" 
Some people just love Christmas, all the fluff and kerfuffel of it. It’s great if you have gift-giving as one of your love languages. Some people love to put a lot of thought and preparation into choosing just the right gift for the right person, beautifully wrapped and presented. I’m just not sure that’s me. I do like making things each Christmas. I tend to pick a project and everyone gets the same, whether it’s my special spice mix or a homemade candle. It doesn’t quite feel like Christmas until I have done made some things to give away.
I do love Christmas. I love each of my Christmas decorations, and I love hanging them carefully on the tree. I love picking a colour theme for the table. But what I love mostly are the smallest things, a tiny nativity carved out of wood that my friend brought me back from Madagascar, a coil of lights in a glass jar.
My gift to you is a small and simple booklet of Christmas readings and carols. It invites you to draw aside with God for a few minutes every day, to read a short Bible verse, to find simple things that draw your attention to Christ.
The parties and the preparation are wonderful and I hope you thoroughly enjoy it all this year. But treat yourself to some space with God this Christmas. Appreciate the small and simple things. 
CLICK HERE for a simple photocopied booklet of Christmas readings, including a daily reading guide (with help from Catholic.com). It is not my own work; it includes a couple of lovely poems from Madeline L'Engle's fabulous 'Winter Song' book, as well as a couple of our very special Kiwi authors, Shirley Murray and Joy Cowley (also copied below). 

Christmas prayers

Christmas Prayers: a pdf resource including blessings, a Christmas version of the Lords Prayer, and dedication for offerings. Also a collection of Christmas Irish blessings

Light and peace to you from Jesus Christ
Thanks be to God
This is the first Sunday in Advent, and we light the candle of hope.
We claim a hope we do not feel.
We choose to trust despite our fear.
The flame is small and the winds are strong.
But Christ will come, the promise stands
from dawn of time, that Christ will come
a baby born, a world undone,
remade by hope and peace and love.
Come, Lord Jesus, Lord of hope.
You are welcome here.

​Reading: Isaiah 9:2-7            
Prayers for others
 
The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light.
Dear God, we pray for all people who feel lost in the dark in this life.
Be near to those who feel sad,
heal those who are sick.
Give light to those who cry out to you, Lord Jesus, we pray.
You have given your people great joy;
they rejoice in what you have done.
Dear God, we pray for families everywhere this Christmas time, that there will be real joy in every home
No matter how much money or food or how many presents,
may there be joy in belonging in family
May every child feel that they are loved this Christmas,
and every old person feel that they are loved.
For a child is born to us! A son is given.
Dear God, we pray for little babies, and for those not yet born
Bring them safe into this world
Make us a society where every child is cared for.
He will be called, “Wonderful Counselor,” “Mighty God,” “Eternal Father,” “Prince of Peace.”
Dear God, we pray for peace for our world, peace in our time
May people everywhere find true peace from knowing you, Mighty God and Eternal Father.
His authority shall grow continually and there shall be endless peace
This we pray, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace. Amen.

We light the candle …   for Christmas Eve night
 
We light the candle of Hope
In hope we are born, and sustained by hope
this light shines despite everything.
A candle seems such a fragile thing,
a flickering in the dark.
May hope splutter into life in us again and again.
God of new beginnings and new possibilities,
be born in us this night, we pray. Amen.
 
We light the candle of Peace
When fear prowls the night and anxieties crowd the day
peace is a half-remembered gentleness, of kinder times.
We light this candle for peace,
peace in our minds, peace in our homes, peace in our world.
God of grace, make us safe in ourselves
that we might be safe space for others.
Be born in us this night, we pray. Amen.
 
We light the candle of Joy
Ah, joy! Come with lightness, come with laughter!
Tickle us until we forget how important we are.
Pounce on us, surprise us,
lift us out of worry and gloom.
Generous God, give us joy this Christmas,
joy for the giving away;
be born in us this night, we pray. Amen
 
We light the candle of Love
Love comes, as love always comes,
where a heart opens to another
where I see you and a connection sparks in the space between us.
Love is our daily bread and our festive cake
Love is who you are, Father of Jesus
Be born in us, more space for love.

We light the Christ candle 
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God and the Word was God. In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
Come, light of the world.
Come, live in our hearts,
Come, live in between us.
Jesus Christ, be born in us, we pray, this night.
Be our light. Amen.
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Blessing (from John 1)
May the blessing of God shine in you, the life of God that is the light of the world.
May the grace and truth of Jesus Christ grow in you.
May the Spirit of God be at home in your heart,
for God became flesh and came to be with us.
May the glory of God surround you and uplift you,
this Christmas time and for all eternity. Amen.

Blessing
Come let us adore him, Christ the Lord!
May you go with adoration ringing in your heart.
Enjoy the gifts and blessings of Christmas
as you celebrate the birth of Jesus, whatever this day brings.
Go in peace. Amen.

Nativity
by JOY COWLEY

Look now! It is happening again!
Love like a high spring tide
is swelling to fullness
and overflowing the banks of our small concerns.

And here again is the star,
that white flame of truth blazing the way for us
through a desert of tired ways.
 
Once more comes the music,
angel song that lifts our hearts
and tunes our ears to the harmony of the universe,
making us wonder how we ever could have forgotten.
 
And now the magi within us gathers up gifts of gold and myrrh,
while that other part of ourselves, the impulsive,reckless shepherd,
runs helter skelter with arms outstretched to embrace the wonder of it all.
 
We have no words to contain our praise.
We ache with awe, we tremble with miracle,
as once again, in the small rough stable of our lives,
Christ is born.

​O Emmanuel
by Malcolm Guite
 
O come, O come, and be our God-with-us
O long-sought With-ness for a world without,
O secret seed, O hidden spring of light.
Come to us Wisdom, come unspoken Name,
Come Root, and Key, and King, and holy Flame.
O quickened little wick so tightly curled,
Be folded with us into time and place,
Unfold for us the mystery of grace
And make a womb of all this wounded world.
O heart of heaven beating in the earth,
O tiny hope within our hopelessness
Come to be born, to bear us to our birth,
To touch a dying world with new-made hands
And make these rags of time our swaddling bands.
 

Christmas Prayers of Intercession

We praise you, Lord, for you have come to us, you have comforted us
Surely you O God are our salvation. We will trust in you and not be afraid.
Surely you O God are our strength and our guard
With joy we draw water from the wells of salvation
and proclaim to the world the greatness of your name.
 
Let everyone in Zion shout and sing!
for our holy God is great, and he lives among his people.”   (Isaiah 12:1-6)

 
We bring you our thanks this Christmas time
Thank you for every gift, may we treasure all that you give us, in so many ways
We pause in this moment of silence to express to God our gratitude.
…
 
As well as our joys, we bring you our sorrows this Christmas time
You know us through and through, your know our hearts and all that grieves us and all that rises to trouble us. You know what we have lost and we fear.
We pause in this moment of silence to give to God our troubles.
…
At any time, but especially at Christmas time, we bring you our love
Grow our love and our compassion.
Through the frustration of human relationships flow your grace and your forgiveness. Share with us your heart, we pray, that we might love as you love
We pause in this moment of silence to pray for those we love.
 
We pray also for those in need, in pain, homeless or in prison this Christmas time.
 
We gather all our prayers in the words that Jesus taught us:
 
The Lord’s Prayer (words in the back of the hymnbook)
Holy Communion from Jeremiah’s vision of restoration
-  Jeremiah 33
 
Jeremiah looked around at a ruined city, and prophesied restoration and rebuilding
“Once again” he declared, “there will be sounds of joy and gladness.
Once again there will be weddings and celebration.
Gratitude will flow once again after the desolation.”
And the people responded:
Give thanks to the Lord, to the Lord of hosts
for the Lord is good!
God’s love endures forever!
 
Jeremiah spoke the word of the Lord:
“The days are coming when I will fulfill the promise I made to my people.
In those days a branch will sprout from King David’s line
He will do what is right and the land will be saved
the people will live in safety.
He will be called True Saviour, the Righteous One.”
 
We are the people of this branch, the people who follow Jesus Christ.
We live with faith for he has come and he has shown us the Father.
We live in hope for he will come again and bring all things to himself.
 
Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might
heaven and earth are full of your glory.
Hosanna in the highest.
 
We are people who wait upon the Lord,
in prayer and in hope, in fellowship, in mission and service,
in all things depending on the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Jesus
who is alive and present with us now;
by whose power these elements of bread and grape juice
become for us the body and blood of Christ.
 
We are people who remember Jesus,
how he was born, babe in a lowly manger
how he lived, how he taught, how he prophesied, how he suffered.
We remember mostly how he loved
and how, on the night before he died,
he gathered those he loved most dearly close to him
at the Passover meal, and how he took bread and broke it
and gave it to them saying
‘This is my body, which is broken for you.’
And after the meal he took a cup of wine
and he gave thanks to this Father in heaven,
and gave it to them to share, saying
‘This is my blood, sign of a new covenant,
poured out for all for the forgiveness of sin.’
 
Friends, on this Advent Sunday we share together in holy Communion
with Jesus Christ, True Saviour, Righteous One
who has chosen us, called us, blessed us and made us new.
Take and eat, take and drink, in memory of him.

More Advent Communion litanies HERE ​

Nativity Play

"The Angels' Big Entrance" is a brand new nativity play - which means that it has all your favourite Christmas characters, includes various carols, and ends with the "ohhh" moment as the nativity scene is formed at the front. It has 5 speaking parts, plus you can involve as many children or whatever ages as show up on the day without needing rehearing. This play is from the perspective of the angels: there's Gabriel keen for his big moment, and 2 assistant angels running around trying to find out where the Messiah will be born. 

Download the script of the play HERE
Download the powerpoint to go with it HERE
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Christmas & Advent Psalms

Looking for a Call to Worship during December? ... look no further! 
The Lectionary Psalms this year are 80, 85, 126, 89, 97 & 98. These (plus a little extra) are paraphrased and formatted here for use in worship. 
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Click HERE for the page in this website.
​Click HERE to download the pdf.
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An Advent Psalm: 130,
​formated for congregational response


Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord –
Hear my voice, Lord
I call to you for mercy -
Open your ears, Lord 
If you keep count of all our sins,
Who could stand?
But there is forgiveness with you,
and so we honour you.
I wait for the Lord, my soul waits,
and in his word I hope.
More than watchmen wait for the morning
my soul waits for the Lord.
Here is our hope – in the steadfast love of the Lord,
and his great saving power.
God alone will save us
from all our failings.


Make room
In this busiest of seasons, it is up to each of us to make space for Christ.
​There is plenty that will crowd out God, even as God is coming to us.
Time: What’s a good time in your day when you can sit and be still for a moment?
Place: What’s a comfy seat, in bed, by the window, in the garden? Prepare a space, make a cup of tea, get your Bible, pen and paper ready. Sit and rest with God a while.
We all need some solitude, but you can also sit with a child or a friend and read and pray together.
A Welcome Place for Jesus
Find a spot in your home to lay out a ‘welcome place for Jesus’. Lay down a pretty cloth. Set out your nativity set. Add Christmas cards as they come. Each day, find a small simple thing to place there. Maybe a single flower, or a stone, or a treasured gift from the past. Maybe light a candle.
 Noticing the little things
Take your camera out for a walk in the park. Look for small beautiful things, take close-up photos.
Slow down and notice.

​Advent Communion Liturgy

Download three Advent Communion liturgies HERE
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(based on Isaiah 64:1-9. Also quoting from James K Baxter’s ‘Song to the Holy Spirit. Written by Silvia Purdie.) 

O that you would tear open the heavens and come down,
The mountains will quake at your presence.
May your name be made known through all the earth
The nations will tremble at your presence.
No ear has heard, no eye has seen
but you meet us when we walk in your ways.
In our sin we were cut off from you
In our failings we fade away like dead leaves.
Even our best is worthless
when you hide your face from us.
Deliver us from our sins
for you are our Father.
We are the clay, and you are our potter
remember us, your people!

Father of all, Lord of all creation
to you be all praise and glory and thanks
for you remembered your people,
you came to us.
You spoke to your people through your prophets
and through your angels in dreams and visions.
For those with eyes to see and ears to hear
you announced the coming of your Son
and the in-breaking of your kingdom.
 
In Jesus, born of Mary, born in a manger,
you came to us, came to be one of us
came to be one with us.
In Jesus, teacher and friend,
you walked as one of us
In Jesus you showed your power and your love
for those with eyes to see and ears to hear.
In Jesus you showed your power and your love
as all was stripped away and he died on the cross.
We want to close our eyes to your pain
but we turn again to you.
 
Open the eyes of our hearts that we might see you in your risen glory.
O come, O come Emmanuel.
With the people of God through every age, in every nation we praise you:
Holy, holy, holy Lord, God of power and might
heaven and earth are full of your glory.
Hosanna in the highest.
 
Open our hearts as we share in this Communion with Christ
together with God’s people through all the world.
Come Holy Spirit, be in these gifts of bread and juice
may they be to us the body and blood of Christ.
Strengthen your love in us as we gather as friends around your table.
Build a new house in our midst, build your kingdom
O come, O come Emmanuel.
Heaven is with us when you are with us.
Guide us, wound us, heal us.
Amen.

Advent Confession

Lord forgive our impatience.
We get quickly frustrated when problems arise
We confess our expectations that our lives should be easy and free of pain
Lord be patient with us, and teach us patience.
Christ have mercy
Christ have mercy
 
Lord forgive our impatience with the people closest to us.
We confess that our love gets crowded with frustrations and conditions
as we try to change each other before we change ourselves.
Teach us to love as you love us.
Christ have mercy
Christ have mercy
 
Lord forgive our impatience with our own bodies.
We confess our daily limitations, our aches and complaints
Forgive us for pushing ourselves too far
Teach us, Lord, to be kind to ourselves,
to speak gently to ourselves and to rest.
Christ have mercy
Christ have mercy
 
Lord forgive our impatience with the world around us
and those who make decisions that affect us.
We confess that we want things to suit us,
and we struggle to see things from different perspectives.
Forgive our pre-judgements and quick condemnations.
Lord enlarge our view that we might see the world as you see it.
Christ have mercy
Christ have mercy
 
Lord, we pray, give us holy impatience with the world as it is.
Stir us for mission. Inspire us to be your change agents.
We confess that we have settled for what is
and dropped our eyes from the vision of your kingdom.
Christ have mercy
Christ have mercy
 

Words of assurance
In Christ you are forgiven.
In Christ you are lifted up out of the darkness that surrounds us on every side
into the light and love of eternity.
In Christ you are loved more than you can know.
Be at peace. Amen.


Christmas Poems

These poems come with the suggestion that you find more poems and Carols to enjoy. You probably have some old books in your home, and there are plenty at the library and online. 
You may even feel inspired to write your own!
Sources
Madeleine L’Engle & Luci Shaw, ‘WinterSong: Christmas Readings’ (Regent College, 1996)
The New Zealand Hymnbook Trust, ‘Carol our Christmas: A book of New Zealand carols’ (1996)
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Into the Darkest Hour
by Madeleine L’Engle
 
It was a time like this,
War & tumult of war,
a horror in the air.
Hungry yawned the abyss –
and yet there came the star
and the child most wonderfully there.
 
It was a time like this
of fear & lust for power,
license & greed and blight –
and yet the Prince of bliss
came into the darkest hour
in quiet & silent light.
 
And in a time like this
how celebrate his birth
when all things fall apart?
Ah! wonderful it is
with no room on the earth
the stable is our heart.
 

First Coming
by Madeleine L’Engle
 
He did not wait till the world was ready
till men and nations were at peace.
He came when the the Heavens were unsteady,
and prisoners cried out for release.
 
He did not wait for the perfect time.
He came when the need was deep and great.
He dined with sinners in all their grime,
turned water into wine. He did not wait
 
till hearts were pure. In joy he came
to a tarnished world of sin and doubt.
To a world like ours, of anguished shame
he came, and his Light would not go out.
 
He came to a world which did not mesh,
to heal its tangles, shield its scorn.
In the mystery of the Word made Flesh
the Maker of the stars was born.
 
We cannot wait till the world is sane
to raise our songs with joyful voice,
for to share our grief, to touch our pain,
He came with Love: Rejoice! Rejoice!


All over creation
by Shirley Murray
 
All over creation, joy spills into light,
stars, candles ablaze this Christmas night;       
where Jesus is sleeping, peace kisses the earth,
O that we could know who Mary has brought to birth!        
 
This child will bring freedom, this child will release
wellsprings of compassion, ways to peace,       
this child will bring healing, this child will inspire
love answering love, and spirit to Spirit's fire.        
 
This child will befriend us, this child will invite
all children to share his world's delight:       
this Christ will confront us when, children no more,
we plunder our planet, crying from want and war.   
    
Let there be a moment held, as in one breath
when all the earth turns away from death,       
peace nursing creation, peace spreading her wing,
O that we could know what Christmas is meant to bring!
Virgin Birth
by Joy Cowley
 
We have within us a virgin place,
a holy space which belongs to God alone.
We know it by its hunger,
we name it by its need,
the space which will not be touched
by the people we love
or the things we gather
or the positions we hold.
 
We have within us a growing place,
an eternal space that exists for Truth,
where the love of God overcomes us,
where the life of God fills us,
the Emmanuel space where we conceive
and become pregnant of the Holy One
and day by day, give birth
to Christ in the world.
 
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All who would see God’s greatness
by Marnie Barrell
 
All who would see God's greatness,
draw near, bend down, look low:
see how love appears among us
as small as a child. Then go,
tell of the greatness made so small,
tiny and hidden, God of all.
 
If you would share God's riches,
draw near, reach out and touch:
God has only love to offer,
enough for us, and too much.
Take up God's treasure, made so poor,
naked the God that we adore.
 
Would you receive God's power?
Draw near, find strength in this:
laid open to all our violence
is love that will not resist.
This is our God, who chose to be
tied with our bonds to set us free.
 
Stand in the holy silence
while earth with heaven sings
that here in our hands for holding
is love that sustains all things.
Strange is this love that draws us near:
Glory of God, among us here.


A Christmas Carol Poem 
by G. K. Chesterton
 
The Christ-child lay on Mary's lap,
His hair was like a light.
(O weary, weary were the world,
But here is all aright.)

The Christ-child lay on Mary's breast
His hair was like a star.
(O stern and cunning are the kings,
But here the true hearts are.) 

The Christ-child lay on Mary's heart,
His hair was like a fire.
(O weary, weary is the world,
But here the world's desire.)

The Christ-child stood on Mary's knee,
His hair was like a crown,
And all the flowers looked up at Him,
And all the stars looked down 

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A Celtic Christmas

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I found this lovely article:  A Celtic Christmas
Written by Mary Earle,  www.explorefaith.org
 
Historically, at this time of the year, the peoples of the Celtic lands (Scotland, Ireland, Wales, Brittany, Cornwall, Isle of Man, Galicia) marked the natural rhythm as autumn turned to winter. This was a time for watching for the light’s return, even in the midst of darkness. This was a time for pondering endings and beginnings. As Christianity came to these lands, perhaps as early as the first century, there was a ready embracing of the proclamation that Jesus was the Son of God.

The Celtic peoples celebrated the natural world as shot through with divine presence. For them, the divine becoming human was plausible, welcome and true. Incarnation was not a stumbling block as it was to the Greeks. This faith that had a central story of a man who came from God and returned to God, a man who was God’s Son, did not seem so far-fetched to the Celtic mind.

In every Welsh nativity scene, a washerwoman accompanies Mary, Joseph and Jesus at the manger. For the Welsh tradition, if Jesus isn’t born daily into the common household, then there’s really no point of celebrating the birth at Bethlehem. Jesus’ birth, singular as it is, also shows us the sacredness of each child, knit together in the mother’s womb by God’s own Spirit. Jesus’ birth reminds us that each household is dear to God.

We celebrate the deep compatibility of the divine and the human as we rejoice in the Incarnation—in God’s life being revealed to us in the baby boy born at Bethlehem, God being birthed into human life, taking on human nature from the inside out.
As an old Welsh poem states
Mary nurtures a Son in her womb:
His birth a blessing to those who discover him.
He goes forth like the sun, 
great is the number of his company.


Celtic Christmas Blessings
 
In the light of the Christmas star – God bless you.
In your travels, both near and far – God bless you.
As you celebrate Jesus’ birth – God bless you.
As you pray for peace on earth – God bless you.
 

The light of the Christmas star to you
the warmth of home and hearth to you
the cheer and good will of friends to you
the love of the Son and God’s peace to you

 
By the brilliance of the Christmas candle
may God fill your home with light and warmth
and guide your footsteps through the New Year
in ways of joy and peace!
 
A Celtic Christmas Blessing
God send us a happy Christmas!
His blessing be on our home.
His love be around our loved ones
wherever they may roam.
 
God send us a holy Christmas!
His name be on every mind
and close to the crib of Bethlehem
true happiness may we find.
 
God send us a peaceful Christmas!
May the sweetness of memories throng
where we sit at the festive table
and sing a soothing song.
 
God send us a merry Christmas
to us and all we love!
On our home may the babe of Bethlehem
smile down from his home above.
 
Nollag Shona
Nollaig Chridheil

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Daily Bible Readings
These are short readings from all around the Bible. If you have time, read the whole chapter. In your journal, write out the key words that intrigue you. Choose one verse to remember; write it all out 2 or 3 times. Use a word or image from the reading in your prayer.                              (from the Catholic.org website)
 
Sunday 26 November: Romans 13:11-14
Monday:   1 Corinthians 1:3-9
Tuesday:   Mark 13:33-37
Wednesday:  John 1:1-5
Thursday:  John 1:6-9
Friday:   Jeremiah 33:14-16
Saturday:   Isaiah 6
 
Sunday 3 December: 1 John 4:7-12
Monday:   Psalm 43:3-6
Tuesday:   Psalm 27:1-4
Wednesday:   Psalm 119:105-106
Thursday:   John 12:35-36
Friday:   Ephesians 5:6-14
Saturday:  1 Peter 2:5-9
 
Sunday 10 December: Romans 15:4-13
Monday:   2 Corinthians 4:3-6
Tuesday:  1 John 1:1-7
Wednesday:  John 3:16-21
Thursday:   Isaiah 40:1-11
Friday:   John 9:1-7
Saturday:   Luke 3:1-6
 
Sunday 17 December: Isaiah 60:1-3
Monday:   Zephaniah 3:14-17
Tuesday:   Matthew 1:18-25
Wednesday:  Luke 2:8-20
Thursday:   Matthew 4:14-16
Friday:   Isaiah 2:1-5
Saturday:   Luke 2:25-33
Sunday 24 December:  Isaiah 11:1-10



Grandma’s Story
A Christmas Drama


A dramatic telling of the Christmas night, from Grandma's perspective. Only one reader required. 

Well, I have some news. We have a new baby in the family! Ah, and you didn’t even know that any of my lot were with child did you? Who is it? Oh, my brother James’ boy – God rest his soul. He moved to Nazareth, remember? His boy, Joseph. Yes, well they only arrived yesterday, he and his young lady
Well, I wasn’t exactly going to bend over backwards to find a nice room for them, not after the rumours I’d been hearing. Now, you know I’d be the LAST person to gossip, but ...   
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Growing faith at home this Christmas

A letter to families, with suggestions for how to deepen faith through the Christmas season.
www.conversations.net.nz
Written by Silvia Purdie 

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